Men need to be wanted, they need to miss you and yearn for you. This is true for both the physical and emotional connection.
Give him your full attention. This doesn’t mean ignoring your friends or putting your own dreams on hold, but it does mean making him feel that you prioritize him.
1. Make him feel special
Guys often feel like they need reassurance from their partners, but they also want to be treated to something unique and special. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy, but it should be something that shows that you appreciate the things he does and who he is.
For instance, you could take him out to do his favorite activity, such as bowling or go-karting. Or you could give him a surprise gift such as his favorite chocolates or a new tee shirt for no particular reason. Even doing something as simple as cooking his favorite meal or picking him up from work on a busy day can make him feel like you really love and appreciate him.
Men also like it when their partner takes the lead in bed. While this can vary from guy to guy, it’s important for most of them to feel that they are in charge during sex because it makes them happy. So if you’re trying to make your man happy, it might be worth taking some time to practice being the dominant partner in the bedroom.
It’s not always healthy to be completely dependent on your boyfriend, so make sure you have a life of your own and that you can spend some time apart from him. You can also give him a treat he wouldn’t usually get, such as a massage or taking him out for dinner on his birthday.
Men are very protective of their egos, so don’t talk bad about him to other people or behind his back. Not only is this emasculating, but it will also send him the message that you don’t respect him. And let’s face it, no one likes to be criticized or insulted.
2. Make him feel like a child
In many cultures, men are encouraged to act childishly as it gets them laughs and can even be endearing. However, these juvenile behaviors might also be a sign that there’s more going on under the surface. Men who are acting childishly may be trying to communicate that they aren’t happy or comfortable with their lives. In these cases, it’s important to make him feel like you love him for who he is, not just because you want him to change.
Whether it’s his height, his weight, or his job, many men have insecurities about their bodies. They can get frustrated and annoyed when you try to change them. Rather than making him feel bad about himself, it’s best to compliment his positive traits and encourage him to keep working on the things that aren’t perfect.
Most guys aren’t as good at basic tasks like setting a table or tying a tie as some kids. This can be frustrating for them when you point it out to them and they start avoiding these types of activities altogether. Instead, be a supportive partner and offer to help with these kinds of tasks. You can say something as simple as, “Honey, would you mind helping me open this jar of jam?” This will make him feel useful and appreciated.
Many men are obsessed with sports. If you’re planning a date night on a day that he has a game, don’t be afraid to let him know it’s fine and can reschedule for another time. This will show him that you care about his interests and are a team player. It will also make him feel like you have faith in his abilities.
3. Give him the importance and respect he deserves
Men are just as emotional as women and want to be treated with care and respect. They also crave the same attention and pampering that children get. This can be as simple as giving him your undivided attention when he’s talking to you and showing that you love him by touching him in little ways. Gently caressing the back of his head or planting your hand on his chest when he’s speaking are small touches that show that you’re invested in him and that you’re proud to be with him. Men aren’t afraid to express their emotions, so don’t be surprised if he has a cry in front of you. Be empathetic when he’s feeling down and try to cheer him up with little things like letting him hang out with his friends or taking him out to do his favorite activities.
When he’s talking to you about work, home, or his dreams, listen attentively and don’t interrupt him. Give him your full attention and respond to his words with thoughtful responses that show that you truly hear him. If you don’t understand his point, don’t make him feel embarrassed or defensive. Instead, ask him to clarify and explain his point of view again so that you both know what’s being said.
Lastly, don’t compare him with other men or put him down because he’s not as good at something as someone else is. This is a sure way to make him feel disrespected and smothered. Instead, support him in his goals and dreams and be proud of the man he is. This will help him believe in himself and give him the confidence that he can do anything he sets his mind to.
4. Make him feel like he’s the best thing that ever happened to you
Men need to feel important and respected. This doesn’t mean he should be made to feel like the only one in your life, but it does mean that you should treat him with respect and make sure that he knows how special he is to you. Men love it when you compliment them on things they do or say, but women often forget to show their appreciation for their man’s strengths and accomplishments. Men also like it when you make them feel special with little, thoughtful gestures now and then.
Another thing that makes a man feel like the best thing that ever happened to him is when you tell him how lucky you are to have him. This doesn’t have to be an elaborate statement, but it should be a sincere and loving expression of how happy you are that he’s in your life.
You should also try to avoid criticizing him and his decisions, even if you think they’re not the best. Guys hate being criticized, and nothing will break their heart more than hearing you nitpick every little thing about them.
Finally, you should try to keep the inner child alive in both of you. Don’t be afraid to be a little bit selfish, playfully jealous or possessive now and then. This will make your relationship more fun and will remind him of why he fell for you in the first place.
5. Make him feel like he’s the most important person in your life
Men need to feel needed just as much as anyone else. Showing him that you need him and that he’s important to you can make him feel like a hero in your relationship. Even little things, like asking him to help you with something simple, can work. It shows him that he’s your partner and that you value his opinion. It also shows him that you’re willing to put your own needs aside for his, which can make him feel like he’s the only one in your life.
Guys are extremely sensitive and they have huge egos. Don’t criticize him or talk about him behind his back, even if you think that what he did was wrong. It will only hurt his feelings and cause him to question your trust. Instead, be open and honest with him about your thoughts and concerns. Just don’t be overly critical, especially during a romantic day.
Do things that he likes to do and take an interest in his hobbies. This will let him know that you care about his interests and that you want to spend time with him. It can also be fun to do things together that you’ve never done before, such as taking a cooking class or trying a new sport.
Guys also love it when their partners take charge in bed, so don’t be afraid to initiate sex and show him that you’re not just his girlfriend, but that you’re his dominant wife. Lastly, always consult him before making any major decisions in your relationship, even if you’re sure that you’re right. This will show him that you value his opinion and that he’s the most important person in your life.